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When they meet in person, they may complain that the person doesn’t match the perception, says ben-David.
“It’s like our own internal movie screen and we project what we want to see,” he says. ’ But you are working with personas as opposed to actual people.” Mobile dating was a convenient way for Mosser to meet men her age who lived nearby, she says.
“The only information you get at a bar is really what they look like or what they are doing at that moment. Eastwick says having these things in common with your date doesn't necessarily make it likelier that you'll be a good match or that you'll even be attracted to them when you meet in person.
“That being said, there are certainly cases for some people where religion or race is a deal breaker,” he says.
“Once you became matched with someone, there was no pressure to do or say anything,” Mosser says.
She also recently downloaded JSwipe, a similar app for Jewish singles. If you are chatting [online] with people too long, you have too many expectations.” While location and speed may be everything for some singles, other newer dating sites are narrowing the field in a different way. People who have strong political, theological, or social viewpoints tend to want to meet someone who falls in line with their views, says Misha ben-David, a rabbi and licensed counselor also based in Austin.
“These apps are as close to organic dating as you can get without sitting at a bar,” Levy says. They match members based on shared ethnicity, religion, or background. The site’s banner includes biblical quotes and symbolism to attract Christian singles. Using the tagline “City folks just don’t get it,” this site matches singles who live on rural farms or ranches. This mobile app focuses on African-American singles, mimicking Tinder’s GPS technology. But just because someone shares your politics or race may not mean you'll have chemistry, he says.
“Whereas most dating sites have that pressure-filled moment when you create a profile, Tinder is much more relaxed.” She says it worked for her because she could use it to plan to meet up for a casual meal, drink, or movie.
“Tinder works for busy people, because it is what you make of it,” she says.