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She says that it often involves alcohol, and no other forms of intimacy.
According to Donna Freitas, who wrote a book called Sex and the Soul, a hookup is any sexual encounter that is unplanned, casual, and has no promise of a future.Perhaps they can, but women ARE different than men. Whatever works between consenting adults is not to be judged by me.When women have sex, oxytocin gets released because of the evolutionary drive to attach to someone who may be the potential father of a possible child. Of course, being higher order beings, we can control our emotions and our biological urges. And the impact of wanting to bond with someone who does not want to bond can leave women feeling disappointed, confused and sometimes hurt. However, from my own personal experience, most women cannot have a sexual encounter and not feel hurt if a man does not call again and is clear he has not intention to do so.It was then that alcohol involved, she’d seek out a hookup.I’d intercept those and that’s why I noticed the pattern and stay “relating” rather than leave the relationship in anger or tears.If we're not so clear on the social aspects, let's explore the biological context.The Physiology Post-feminism women feel that they can behave like men sexually.It requires looking at all problems exclusively from women's perspective, or for the purpose of seeing how women are affected.It is based on the idea that women are more virtuous, more important than men. Don't even think of trying the converse male-biology-as-female-destiny approach.This is a relatively new field of study, and clearly the jury is out on how men and women experience casual sex.So, I will revert to the basic question of nature versus nurture.