How to have sex for free
If you’re thinking about having sex for the first time, you might be feeling a little nervous as well as excited.There’s probably loads you want to know – and that’s totally normal.
Some people think that sex is no big deal, but others see it as something they only want to share with an extra-special person.
Make sure it’s a water-based lube if you’re using condoms, and ALWAYS use extra lube for anal sex. Discuss with your partner ways to make sex more comfortable, or talk to your GP if you’re concerned there might be something else going on. If fireworks don’t happen straight off, don’t stress.
The hymen is a thin membrane that surrounds the opening of the vagina. If there is some bleeding from sex, it shouldn’t last very long. First-time sex can be awesome, or it may leave you feeling a bit disappointed. Everyone is different: some people don’torgasm during sex, some orgasm really quickly, and others take a very long time to reach orgasm, especially the first few times.
We’ve put together a list of some stuff to consider before, during and after sex.
If you’re not sure if you’re 100% ready, it can help to talk with someone you trust, such as a trusted friend or family member, or a mental health professional.