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I've never had a one-night stand.— Mike, 32OK, ladies, now I get it. While a healthy portion fully admit they want to find love, just as many want sex and only sex.
I'm personally shocked I didn't see any “friends with benefits” wishes, but it seems like the guys looking for sex are after something even less committal, opting for one-night stands.
According to them, most other users are using the app for more selfish or sexual reasons. Are men using these dating apps for something besides dating?
I asked some friends over at cougar dating site Toyboy Warehouse to reach out to their audience to see what guys' real intentions on dating apps are. I wasn't sure what I was looking for when I first joined, but I've had loads of conversations, a number of dates and a relationship (which has sadly ended now).
I’m a millennial and that’s how we meet each other.” (The special is funny and you should watch it.)Statistically speaking, there’s plenty of evidence that dating apps work—especially for those among us whose endgame is meeting a long-term partner.Yet, where Tinder acts as a gateway app for some daters (from which they move onto apps more aligned with their specific desires), for others it remains the best of the bunch.When Samantha Karjala started using apps to meet more people in her small Northeastern town, she was annoyed at what they implied.“I think I most enjoyed the bios, because it really shows what people think is important enough to say in a few words.” Her bio was a Nicki Minaj lyric that she says, “sparked a lot of conversations”—including one with the guy who would later become her husband.Julia* lives in Maine and, though she says she’s had the most success meeting people via Bumble, kept Tinder for her work trips.In theory, dating apps are simply a way to meet potential love or sex partners.These smartphone-dwelling matchmakers can even facilitate experimentation, helping users code for and discover what they want from another person in any given moment. Now that I'm in a long-term relationship with a person I met on the app, there's still a part of me that's nostalgic for the act of swiping.While I did find what I was looking for when I used the app, I also enjoyed the game-like aspect of swiping. (It was the preferred app I'd browse when I was going to the bathroom.)So with that, I guess you could say my intentions on the app were mixed.“I’ve held onto Tinder because it’s used more internationally,” she says.“I used to travel abroad alone for work a lot and would just get super bored.