Dating sites for sex only
I downloaded Tinder for the first time in Buenos Aires because I wanted to practice my Spanish.Even if I don’t go out with anyone, at the very least it’s entertaining to scope out people in foreign cities.”Feeld is an app for people who know what they want.“We didn't have to hide those facets of ourselves, and that made it easier—at least for me—to feel good about just getting to know him and figure out that we had a genuine connection.” Hinge may seem like it plays second-fiddle to the likes of Tinder, but it has a pretty elite user base (99 percent of its daters went to college, for example).Hinge’s CEO compared his app to Facebook, versus Tinder’s Myspace—sometimes for interface reasons (Hinge is aimed at the college-educated set) and sometimes for class reasons (much has been written on the ways dating app algorithms may favor white people).So given the evidence, and the fact that it’s totally okay to think dating online sucks and still do it anyway, I wanted to know: Which apps come most recommended by people who fuckin’ hate to date? Some of their answers won’t surprise you—even if their reasoning does—while other options are refreshingly new.For many modern daters, the name “Tinder" should be accompanied by the Darth Vader theme song.We met on a dating app and it’s less a product of my creativity and more a product of my generation.I’m a millennial and that’s how we meet each other.” (The special is funny and you should watch it.)Statistically speaking, there’s plenty of evidence that dating apps work—especially for those among us whose endgame is meeting a long-term partner.
While that may sound pretty niche, Veronica*, 35, who lives in Queens, says Feeld became her favorite dating app.
But then, “I woke up one day and decided I wanted to have a threesome, and that’s how I came to download Feeld,” she says.
She noted that the app immediately felt easier than Tinder or Bumble.
“I think I most enjoyed the bios, because it really shows what people think is important enough to say in a few words.” Her bio was a Nicki Minaj lyric that she says, “sparked a lot of conversations”—including one with the guy who would later become her husband.
Julia* lives in Maine and, though she says she’s had the most success meeting people via Bumble, kept Tinder for her work trips.