Dating and sex after 50
For many women after the age of 50, if there are children, they are mostly independent.Their career and financial security are more certain.This is sort of a silver lining, since we understand each other's pain issues perfectly, and are in this together, although we'd really have neither of us afflicted.We still enjoy what we have: ability to really talk together, like same plays, films, types of vacations, politics.And these are things you can do for each other as a couple even as our bodies age. I have more sexual energy than I had at my 30s and so does my wife. it is all, touching, long kissing, frequent hugging. I fix my sex addict GF by fuck her everyday and she always had multiple orgasm every time. I told her that, I dont have to shoot, I am not tired and I can do other things in my life without falling asleep.
She may be ready to let go of long-held body image issues, trauma, and wounds from past heartaches or failed relationships, and even abuse.I have severe systemic osteoarthritis and need strong medication to at least diminish the pain. Between the pain itself and the side effects of the meds, my sex drive has vanished.Despite fighting this condition, my life has gotten narrower. My husband coincidentally developed the same condition and jokes about "his 'n' hers" arthritis.Possibly you could include a bit about one's sex drive diminishing because of some of the effects of aging which are here to stay.I'm sorry but you husband is lying he wants to fuck something ,,,don't believe he is on your level about sex even,,,old dudes still think about it watch porn cheat and use viagra and other bullshit pills because they are selfish pricks he is doing something BEHIND YOUR BACK,, Telling somebody what "all men are like" is not helpful and not accurate. I am in my 50's and my wife suffers from on and off chronic pain.Women need to let go of the idea that after the age of 50, women have a diminishing or lower libido post menopause. Letting go of perceptions of what sexuality is about can help Sex After 50: 1. Somehow many women have this notion they are only supposed to get sexual satisfaction from or after the sexual satisfaction of their partner.While she can certainly take pleasure from interacting with her partner, the reality is that both she and her partner can manifest greater satisfaction by focusing only on her pleasure.Making that shift in perspective can lead to better sex for everyone. Stop worrying about “taking too long” to achieve pleasure. Shifting the emphasis from orgasm to touching, kissing, stroking.The wonderful thing about sex after 50 is that you have more time and space to explore touch. Being creative and welcoming curiosity can allow new sensations. Women have as much erectile tissue in their pelvis as men do in their penis.She may find she finally has the time and the means to discover herself sexually, and this exploration has now become a priority in her life.She simply cannot tolerate missing out on what is possible for her, and often sets out on a journey of sensual self-discovery.